7 Signs She’s Attracted
My awkward teenage self would have cherished this blog post. As men, regardless of age, knowing whether a woman is interested in us can feel like solving a rubix cube for the first time. Luckily, just as you can learn to master that 6 colored cube, you can learn to detect when she’s into you, and when she’s not. Best of all, this isn’t going to take weeks of intense focus to understand.
In what follows, I’m going to share the 7 simple signs that she’s attracted to you. Learning these signs takes away much of the guesswork. It reduces the odds of something awkward. And best of all, it’ll help you to make your move in a confident way right when she wants you to. That’s what I call a win-win. Without further ado, let’s dive in.
Sign #1: She gets caught looking in your direction.
I put this as the first sign because it’s often an indicator that she wants you to go introduce yourself or to re-engage in some chat. The eyes don’t lie. We look at things we like. However, her looking in your direction once doesn’t mean she’s wooed. But, if you catch her glancing in your direction more than one time, chances are, she likes you enough that she wants to get to know you better. If you find you’re also interested, lock eyes with her, give her your best James Bond piercing gaze, hold it, then, walk over and introduce yourself.
Sign #2: She touches you repeatedly or playfully slaps you.
Just as we tend to look at what we like, we also tend to touch that which we desire. Her playfully touching you is a tell-tale sign that she likes you. Now, don’t take a single momentary bump as a definite sign of attraction. However, if it’s repeated, and it’s wrapped in a light and playful moment between the two of you, she’s likely feeling attraction for you. She probably wants reciprocation from you.
Sign #3: She laughs at all of your jokes, even the ones that aren’t funny.
Ah yes, the giggly stage. This is a great sign, my man. In the same way that us guys cherish every word that comes out of the mouth of the girl we’re interested in, she too, when attracted to you, will hinge on your every word, laughing and giggling excessively. When paired with the playful touching, it’s highly probable that she likes you. Watch for this. If you find that she is continuously laughing at all of your jokes, it’s a clear indication to continue the conversation. I’d recommend you keep it light and fun. Flirt with her, my man!
Sign #4: She fill lulls in the conversation multiple times to keep talking to you.
To continue feeling the desirable emotions she experiences around a guy she likes, she’ll often offer conversation bridges so that she can keep talking to you. When she does, especially more than once, it’s a good sign she likes you. She wants to be around you. You’re certainly in a place where you can continue building the emotional connection by flirting and teasing, and you should share more about yourself, too.
Sign #5: She plays with her hair or grooms herself when talking to you.
The reasoning behind this one is primal. Mammals, when in the presence of a potential mate they find attractive, preen and pamper themselves, in order to look their best. Often times, she’ll be twirling her hair as she gazes into your eyes, completely oblivious that she’s clearly indicating her attraction towards you. But because you’re a wise gent who’s studying up, now you know! When she’s twirling her hair in excess or touching up her make-up between talking to you, especially when combined with the other signs, you’re receiving powerful signals that she’s attracted to you. Often, while twirling her hair she’ll subtly bite her lower lip, too. This is another sign of attraction. If you like her, it may be time to slowly turn up the heat.
Sign #6: Her pupils get big as she looks at you.
The puppy eyes are a great sign, sir. This is another unconscious indicator of interest. It’s out of her control. The larger pupils actually make her more attractive to a potential mate (that’s you!). You do this too when you look at a woman you find desirable. This sign, especially when paired with the other signs already discussed, clearly indicates that she likes you. The eyes are the portals to the soul. They don’t lie. When you see the big pupils, again, especially when paired with other signs like we’ve discussed, slowly move closer to her. See if she warms to your presence. If she does, she very well may be ready for you to kiss her.
Sign #7: When she likes you, she’ll often close the distance between the two of you.
If you notice that she’s “accidentally” bumping into you, or gently rubbing against you, again, this is a powerful indicator that she likes you, especially when repeated. A woman will not purposely put herself in close proximity to a man she does not feel comfortable around. Any woman will confirm this to you. The fact that she’s holding close to you is a great sign that she likes you. Just as with the enlarged pupils, the closeness she’s created between the two of you is a potential sign that she wants you to escalate things.
Those are the 7 signs. When you notice multiple occurring within a short amount of time, it almost certainly means she likes you. As the man, stay aware to ensure that you move at a pace that’s comfortable for her. That being said, if these signs are all showing themselves, she may be implicitly asking you to take the next step!
Remember, she wants you to understand her – and this means – understanding when she likes you! With these 7 signs, now you can!
Now…Let’s talk about getting you more of what you want as a man. More invites. Better opportunities at work. And a more exciting love life. You can have each.
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